Virginia Satir citáty

„Chci tě milovat, aniž bych tě spoutávala,
vážit si tě, aniž bych tě hodnotila,
jít po tvém boku a nebýt ti na obtíž,
pozvat tě blíž, ale nečinit si na tebe nárok,
vzdalovat se od tebe bez pocitu viny,
vidět, jaký doopravdy jsi a nevyčítat ti to,
pomáhat ti, aniž bych tím zraňovala tvoji důstojnost.
A pokud můžu totéž dostat já od tebe,
nebudeme se míjet a budeme jeden o druhého bohatší.“

“Why Family Therapy…because it deals with family pain. you”

“We need 4 hugs a day for survival. We need 8 hugs a day for maintenance. We need 12 hugs a day for growth.”

“A growing body of clinical observation has pointed to the conclusion that the family therapy must be oriented to the family as a whole.”

“I believe the greatest gift I can conceive of having from anyone is to be seen, heard, understood and touched by them. The greatest gift I can give is to see, hear, understand and touch another person. When this is done, I feel contact has been made.”

“To all my friends, colleagues and family: I send you love. Please support me in my passage to a new life. I have no other way to thank you than this. You have all played a significant part in my development of loving. As a result, my life has been rich and full, so I leave feeling very grateful.”

“I want to love you without clutching, appreciate you without judging, join you without invading, invite you without demanding, leave you without guilt, criticize you without blaming, and help you without insulting. If I can have the same from you, then we can truly meet and enrich each other.”